I want to be with him, but should I move on?


I want to be with him, but should I move on?

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    September 12, 2017 at 9:44 am #148777
    I want to be with him, but should I move on?

    I matched with this guy on Bumble back in early July. We exchanged numbers and for a few weeks we were so into eachother, talking everyday, facetiming and snapchatting. It wasn’t until we tried to set up our first date that things went wrong. We set up this date three times and every time he would make up an excuse as to why it didn’t happen. After the third and final time he stopped talking to me for 3 weeks. At that point I was over him and was looking for someone else, when he comes back out of the blue saying “Hey, hope all is well with you”. I confronted him and was honest with how I felt. That he hurt me, he knew I liked him a lot, and it wasn’t okay. He doesn’t really know what to say so he leaves for a week and comes back with the honest apology I was hoping for, so we’re now on good terms. Slowly getting back to where things were. We left our last conversation with him saying “you have a lot to offer”. So, what do I do? Confront him about where we stand?

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    September 13, 2017 at 11:55 am #148891

    sounds like hes just messing you around…

    September 14, 2017 at 8:07 pm #149114

    agree… something isn’t right with this guy… trust your gut,

    September 15, 2017 at 11:43 am #149161

    He sounds flaky. I’d continue dating around and if you ever are able to meet, great. If not, at least you won’t be too hung up on him.

    September 16, 2017 at 12:38 am #149274

    Any guy that is truly interested in you will not treat you like this. It’s suspicious and flakey behaviour. Don’t waste your time.

    September 17, 2017 at 5:40 pm #149290

    I’m in a similar situation-he stopped talking after the date. I always give the ice that you have nothing to lose by texting/saying whatever is on your chest. You will know when it’s enough and have said it all without seeming too desperate.

    September 17, 2017 at 10:58 pm #149307

    Personally, I’d move on! If he wanted something to come of it, then he’d make more of an effort!

    September 17, 2017 at 11:46 pm #149309

    The guy is clearly messing with you.

    September 18, 2017 at 1:02 pm #149381

    Sounds like he’s not real.

    September 19, 2017 at 5:18 am #149466
    Reply To: I want to be with him, but should I move on?

    yes you have to even if its hurting you. life must go on!

    September 19, 2017 at 12:47 pm #149511
    Reply To: I want to be with him, but should I move on?

    Weird. It sounds like he talking to other people and when they don’t work out he goes back to you because your his safety blanket. Just my opinion.